Prop 8 – ELIMINATES RIGHT OF SAME–SEX COUPLES TO MARRY
My Summary: Straight from the voter guide…
- Changes the California Constitution to eliminate the right of same-sex couples to marry in California.
- Provides that only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California.
My Opinion: I think the most important thing to understand is what this fight for protecting marriage is really about. It’s not about rights, because domestic partnerships in California already give same-sex couples the same rights as straight couples (it can’t be the exact same because of some Federal laws), but for all intensive purposes it’s the same. They can make health care decisions, they can take the other person’s name, and all the “death” things like wills are included. Go read the list, and then tell me there is something really important that same-sex couples are being denied.
Instead, this is really a battle about the validity of same-sex marriage. Back in 2000 the people of California voted that marriage is defined as being between a man and a woman, and a narrow decision by seven people overturned the will of an entire state.
Like I said before, this is not a battle for rights. Same-sex couples have all the rights they could need. This is a battle fought by proponents of gay marriage to normalize their behavior in the eyes of society. If the state permits same-sex marriage, then it’s just as valid/normal/beautiful as heterosexual marriage. If the law acknowledges it, then gay marriage is on an equal platform with traditional marriage. Nevermind the traditional roles of the family and the unique gifts that a man and a woman bring to the table. Nevermind an institution that has seen mankind through thousands of years of struggles. Now a gay marriage is just as good as a straight one.
I think that does two major things. The first is that it radically changes an institution that a huge majority of Americans believe in (and against their will when the courts get involved). The second is that by recognizing gay marriage and traditional marriage as equals according to the law, all hell can then break loose. For those of you that think there can be no repercussions, read the following taken from an awesome article by Frank Turek:
A federal court recently denied parents the right to know when homosexuality was being discussed in their Massachusetts schools because gay marriage is now legal there. Also in Massachusetts, a Catholic adoption agency was forced to close its doors rather than provide children to homosexual couples as the state now demands. In New Jersey, a Christian ministry was investigated for refusing to conduct a same-sex ceremony. In California, a doctor was sued for refusing to artificially inseminate a lesbian.
There will be wide reaching implications if this proposition fails, and it will have nothing to do with rights. Gay marriage will be placed at the same level as traditional marriage, and anyone who objects won’t have a leg to stand on.
Bottom Line: This is not a ‘civil rights’ issue. Domestic partnerships allow gay couples to have 99% of the freedoms that straight couples have. Marriage does not need to be redefined. If it is, don’t be surprised when the values of the homosexual community are forced on your places of worship or the education of your children. Don’t say it won’t happen, because it already has.
I am voting YES on Prop 8.
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